Care plan
Three phases. Each does a different job. What we're pushing the care team on along the way.
The 90-day arc
Phase 1 Β· Detox at Haven
~30 days Β· West Palm Beach, FL Β· β complete (moved to TRT 6/3)
Chemistry. Nervous-system stabilization. Personalized taper extended once on Ross's BP-spike flag. Acute benzo taper finished here β which is what Dad means by "the taper ended weeks ago." Stabilized β finished; the recovery work is Phase 2.
- Goal: stable baseline before residential handoff β met
- Carry forward: EKG, Watchman date, gabapentin/kindling ask, jail-history + integrity context
Phase 2 Β· Residential PHP
~30 days Β· The Recovery Team (TRT) Β· ~30 min from Haven Β· current Β· 6/3 β July 3 discharge
Where the real therapeutic work happens. More activities, pool, phone access, in-person family visits. EMDR continues with Corrin's sister-facility counterpart. Discharge is now set for July 3 (~30 days). After a tense mid-June stretch β BP spikes + tics, and a near-walkout that defused once TRT found + fixed a BP under-dosing β Dad is committed to finishing; the earlier "out by July 4th" ultimatum has eased.
Arrived 6/3 β handoff still the live item. Medical lead (Alyssa, NP) is now in contact (6/8 med update); the counseling side + a warm context-transfer are still to do. Transfer the Haven context (jail history, integrity work, kindling, "feels like jail" reframe, "taper done = healed" misread) via signed ROI + warm handoff, or it restarts from zero. Dad reports the environment feels rough/unsafe β verify with the team; it's likely part real (different population than detox) and part flight-into-health + institutional-trauma echo.
The open gap is now Phase 3. Dad's committed to finishing TRT; the live disagreement is what comes after β Angela favors a long faith-based residential program, which doesn't fit Dad's medical needs and he won't accept. The medical case for at-home IOP β Decouple recovery from reconciliation, and push for a family/couples session through TRT as the container.
Dad's stated motivators (5/27 call): phone access, the pool, and β most importantly β access to a neurologist for his tics. He reports Dr. Ignatov has done what he can on the tic side. Stephanie aware + supportive.
- Goal: learn to inhabit a non-numbed life
- DON contact: Rico (introduced by Lynn 5/27, CC'd on family thread)
- Open: BP control (losartan trial, 6/8), external neurologist referral (no in-house neuro β insurance-aware), GeneSight results, sleep-stack consolidation, MOUD decision, phone/computer-access limits (Dad wants to work; see 5/30 note)
Phase 3 Β· IOP at home (Apollo Beach)
Months 3+ Β· stepmom-led handoff
Step-down to community living. Family-caregiver role activates. Dad's stated wish: home, with a pro care team around him. Why at-home IOP, not a long residential program β
- Lead time: begin 3β4 weeks before discharge from The Recovery Team
- Critical first appt: psychiatrist β€7 days post-discharge
SF alternative floated on the 5/27 call β Dad considering coming to SF post-program to give Angela space + spend time with Paul + Pat. Real option; revisit when we get there. Would need an SF-based outpatient care team in parallel.
Full prep doc βPhase 3 β choosing the right next step
The most urgent open decision: what comes after residential. Here's the medical case, plainly β meant to be shared.
The starting point we all share: everyone wants Dad to come out of this healthy, grounded, and not relapsing. The only question is which kind of program gets him there safely. And for Dad, his medical situation sets a hard floor: he's on a 13-medication regimen that cannot lapse, with a cardiac history (quadruple bypass, Watchman, a ventricular-arrhythmia history) and benzodiazepine kindling vulnerability. Any program has to be able to manage all of that. That's a safety requirement, not a preference.
What the medical standard of care says
Addiction treatment follows a recognized continuum that steps down in intensity as someone stabilizes: detox β residential β partial hospitalization β intensive outpatient (IOP) β standard outpatient, with recovery support all the way through (SAMHSA, the continuum of care). After a residential program, the standard next step is at-home intensive outpatient plus a real outpatient care team β more independence, with medical and therapeutic support continuing. That is exactly Phase 3 as planned here.
Why a long faith-based residential work program is the wrong next step β for Dad
A 6-to-12-month faith-based residential work program (the Adult & Teen Challenge model is the best-known example) is not a step within that medical continuum β it sits outside it. In fairness, these programs vary, and some are licensed and do integrate medication and medical care. But the ones being considered for Dad share four features that make them a poor and genuinely risky fit for him specifically:
- No medical staff on site. His cardiac meds, blood pressure, and tics need clinical oversight. A program with no medical team simply can't provide it.
- Medication-averse. Programs that discourage or limit medication are dangerous for Dad: abruptly stopping his psychiatric meds risks a kindling cascade β a seizure-level emergency β and his cardiac medications are non-negotiable.
- Built around physical labor. "Work therapy" β building, shipping pallets, warehouse work β is not appropriate for a deconditioned 63-year-old two years out from a quadruple bypass, with chronic back pain.
- Isolating. Long stretches with no phone, no visits, mail-only contact cut him off from the care coordination and family support holding this together right now.
Going straight from a medical residential program into a no-medical-staff, medication-averse work program is a step out of the standard of care, not forward in it. For someone with Dad's medical complexity, that is a real safety risk.
Faith and medical care aren't either/or
This isn't faith versus medicine, and it shouldn't be. Dad genuinely wants a faith-based path β that's a good and grounding thing. It just doesn't have to mean a year living away in a program with no medical support. A non-residential faith track β a healing school, Bible study, a church discipleship program, a strong recovery fellowship β can layer right on top of at-home IOP and his medical team. He gets the spiritual grounding and stays medically safe. The honest test for any program is three plain questions: Does it have medical staff? Can it manage his medications? Can it safely care for a cardiac + kindling patient? If yes, it's worth a serious look. If no, it isn't safe for him β however good it might be for someone healthier.
Source: SAMHSA β Intensive Outpatient Treatment and the Continuum of Care. A lay summary for the family, not medical advice.
What we're pushing the care team on
Priority-ordered, most urgent first. These fit Dad's specific profile and the 2026 standard of care β not all need to land now; many are for the Phase 3 outpatient team. Resolved items are greyed at the bottom.
- Neurologist consult for Tourette's. His worst-felt symptom, now causing self-injury (raw tongue). TRT has no in-house neuro, so it's an outside referral β a movement-disorder specialist who takes his insurance. Start now, don't wait for Phase 3. Neuro-visit prep β
- Kindling prophylaxis. No anticonvulsant (gabapentin / pregabalin / levetiracetam) in the regimen yet, despite being flagged 4+ sessions β the load-bearing safety ask. See the Kindling explainer below.
- NAC dose escalation. He's on 300 mg/day; the research dose for tics + craving is meaningfully higher (600β1200 mg BID). Easy ask, and it supports the tic picture above.
- Vascepa (icosapent ethyl). OmegaCheck 3.0% (high SCD risk), TG 237, established CAD β the REDUCE-IT profile exactly. A real Rx (~25% CV event reduction), not "more fish oil." For cardiology. labs β
- Continuous glucose monitor. Dexcom Stelo / Libre Lingo (OTC, ~$80/mo) on top of baseline insulin 57 + olanzapine β catches glucose excursions before A1c reflects them. Standard for atypical-antipsychotic monitoring.
- Long-acting naltrexone (Vivitrol). Monthly injection, gold-standard relapse prevention for opioid + alcohol. Should be on the table before IOP starts.
- Lp(a). One-time inherited CAD marker, missing from the 2025 baseline. Worth knowing for the cardio handoff. labs β
- DEXA scan. Bone-density baseline β long Xanax history + new PPI + low DHEA + fall risk is a real osteoporosis vector. Get it before Phase 3.
- Ketamine / esketamine (Spravato). If duloxetine doesn't land in 6β8 weeks. FDA-approved for treatment-resistant depression; raise at the Phase 2 review.
- GLP-1 (Ozempic / Mounjaro family). Metabolic rescue if olanzapine worsens his markers β could keep him on the antipsychotic without the metabolic damage.
- HRV wearable (Whoop / Apple Watch). Objective read on kindling sensitivity over time β tracks recovery in a way self-report can't. Cheap insurance.
- Antidepressant PGx (GeneSight) β back + interpreted. Drawn 6/8; CYP2D6 intermediate β duloxetine runs high (don't escalate; lower or switch). full read β
- Plavix responder (CYP2C19) β answered by GeneSight. He's an ultrarapid metabolizer β clopidogrel activates well; not a non-responder. full read β
Kindling β the load-bearing concept
Kindling is progressive neurological sensitization from repeated benzo/sedative withdrawal cycles. Each subsequent withdrawal is worse than the last β the GABA/glutamate balance keeps getting more dysregulated. Originally a 1960s epilepsy term (small repeated electrical pulses eventually trigger full seizures); applied to addiction medicine since the 1980s.
Why it matters for Dad: ~30 years of daily Xanax + at least one cold-turkey event (4/9/2026) = his CNS is now kindling-vulnerable. If he ever has another abrupt withdrawal β even from a missed pharmacy refill β the trajectory escalates: tremor β autonomic instability β seizure β status epilepticus β death. Each event lowers the threshold further.
Mitigations
- Anticonvulsant prophylaxis during any future taper (gabapentin, pregabalin, levetiracetam, oxcarbazepine, lamotrigine)
- Slow long-acting benzo taper instead of fast cessation, if ever needed again
- Never abrupt discontinuation β never let any psych med run out
- Long-term avoidance of GABA-suppressive substances (alcohol especially)
- HRV / autonomic wearable as early-warning signal
Specific asks for Dr. Ignatov / Lynn
- What's the kindling-risk assessment on file? It should be documented prominently.
- Is gabapentin (or pregabalin, levetiracetam, oxcarbazepine, lamotrigine) being considered for kindling prophylaxis? Right now: none in regimen.
- What's the discharge plan around never-cold-turkey-again? Stepmom needs explicit education.
- Is the kindling vulnerability flagged prominently for any future ER visit?
- If a future taper is ever needed, what's the protocol? Slow, long-acting benzo, anticonvulsant cover.